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人生就是為了找尋愛的過程，每個人的人生都要找到四個人
第一個是自己
第二個是你最愛的人，
第三個是最愛你的人，
第四個是共度一生的人.
首先會遇到 你最愛的人 ，然後體會到愛的感覺；
因為了解被愛的感覺，所以才能發現 最愛你的人；
當你經歷過愛人與被愛，學會了愛，才會知道什麼是你需要的，
也才會找到最適合你，能夠相處一輩子的人。
但很悲哀的，在現實生活中，這三個人通常不是同一個人；
你最愛的，往往沒有選擇你；
最愛你的，往往不是你最愛的；
而最長久的，偏偏不是你最愛也不是最愛你的，
只是在最適合的時間出現的那個人。
你，會是別人生命中的第幾個人呢？沒有人是故意要變心的，他愛你的時候是真的愛你，
可是他不愛你的時候也是真的不愛你了，
他愛你的時候沒有辦法假裝不愛你；
同樣的，他不愛你的時候也沒有辦法假裝愛你。
當一個人不愛你要離開你，
你要問自己還愛不愛他，
如果你也不愛他了，千萬別為了可憐的自尊而不肯離開；
如果你還愛他，你應該會希望他過得幸福快樂，
希望他跟真正愛的人在一起，絕不會阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已經不愛他了，
而如果你不愛他，你又有什麼資格指責他變心呢？
愛不是佔有，
你喜歡月亮，不可能把月亮拿下來放在臉盆裡，
但月亮的光芒仍可照進你的房間。
換句話說，你愛一個人，也可以用另一種方式擁有，
讓愛人成為生命裡的永恆回憶，
如果你真愛一個人，就要愛他原來的樣子─愛他的好，也愛他的壞：
愛他的優點，也愛他的缺點，
絕不能因為愛他，就希望他變成自己所希望的樣子，
萬一變不成就不愛他了。
真正愛一個人是無法說出原因的，
你只知道無論何時何地、心情好壞，你都希望這個人陪著你；
真正的感情是兩人能在最艱苦中相守，也就是沒有絲毫要求。
畢竟，感情必須付出，而不是只想獲得；
分開是一種必然的考驗，
如果你們感情不夠穩固，只好認輸，
真愛是不會變成怨恨的。
兩人在談情說愛的時候，
最喜歡叫對方發誓，許下承諾我們為什麼要對方發誓，
就是因為我們不相信對方，我們根本不相信情人，
而這些山盟海誓又很不切實際：
海枯石爛、地老天荒，都不能改變我對你的愛!
明知道海不會枯、石不會爛、地不會老、天不會荒；
就算會，也活不到那時候。
許下諾言的時候千萬注意，不要許下可以實現的諾言，
最好是承諾做不到的事，
反正做不到的，隨便說說也不要緊，
請記住：”不可能實現的諾言最動人”
在愛情裡，說的是一套，做的是另一套；
講的人不相信，聽的人也不相信。
你呢？找到了第幾個？
茫茫人海中，你遇見了誰？誰又遇見了你？
My horoscope
01:29The Bottom Line
Focus on the spirit behind actions today -- no one is perfect, so remember that.
In Detail
Despite some ill-executed work or downright sloppy behavior of a well-meaning person, you will have a day full of a new level of warmth for the people in your life. Suddenly, you can see the true motivation behind what they're doing and that there is a bright love behind everything. Focus on the meaning behind the action. It seems one of your friends thinks more highly of you than you had been letting yourself believe. No one is perfect, but they are perfect for you.
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was feeling very down this few days.. life's seems so vague, feeling so out of place.. as though i'm hanging out of nowhere, feel that i did not seem to belong anywhere, feel like i'm an alien living in the world among humans.. like i've lost everything i have, family, close friends, someone that i care so much for.. it sure to be a very sucky feeling..
Saturday, June 17, 2006
Measure of love
21:19Got this from Jacqueline's Blog..
My love for you is honest, strong and mature.
Its never changing, uplifting & protective.
Its always encouraging, rewarding & unselfish.
I'll always share & never be unfair.
I understand & try not to demand.
I may get hurt but I'll never keep the pain.
This love is about helping each other succeed, to make sure that we help each other be the best person that we can be.
I say :"I love you because I care."
I talk about feelings because they are there.
I touch your life because I'll never break your heart.
I look you in the eye because I never lie.
I let you fall in love with me because I intend to catch your fall & hold you forever close to me through it all.
Its never your 'fault'.
But I'm sorry.
Not where are you but I am right here.
Not how could you but I understand.
Not I wish you were but I am thankful you are.
Our true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together
Or how far our ages are apart
But how good we are for each other.
Love is always special, when you give it to someone who is really worth it.
And I know that there's no one more worth it than you.
Nice poem.... meaningful.... and sweet.... "if only."
Shayne Ward - No Promises
16:18Hey baby, when we are together, doing things that we love.
Every time you're near I feel like I'm in heaven, feeling high
I don't want to let go, girl.
I just need you to know girl.
I don't wanna run away, baby you're the one I need tonight,
No promises.
Baby, now I need to hold you tight, I just wanna die in your arms
Here tonight
Hey baby, when we are together, doing things that we love.
Everytime you're near I feel like I'm in heaven, feeling high
I don't want to let go, girl.
I just need you you to know girl.
I don't wanna run away, baby you're the one I need tonight,
No promises.
Baby, now I need to hold you tight, I just wanna die in your arms
I don't want to run away, I want to stay forever, thru Time and Time..
No promises
I don't wanna run away, I don't wanna be alone
No Promises
Baby, now I need to hold you tight, now and forever my love
No promises
I don't wanna run away, baby you're the one I need tonight,
No promises.
Baby, now I need to hold you tight, I just wanna die in your arms
I don't wanna run away, baby you're the one I need tonight,
No promises.
Baby, now I need to hold you tight, I just wanna die in your arms
Here tonight.
Tuesday, June 06, 2006
Just a thought..
01:40Why did we struggle to stay alive,
just to become slaves to Destiny?
When will we ever be free?
Not until the day we die?
Friday, June 02, 2006
good horoscope today! :D
18:57The Bottom Line
Results are starting to show, and people are starting to notice. Work your mojo!
In Detail
Suddenly you'll start to see many things you never noticed before -- about yourself! There are great changes happening, and people have been noticing for a while now. Little do you know, but you've been the topic of some speculation (and possibly a twinge of jealousy). But overall there's a strong support network around you cheering you on! The warmth around you will give you a nice sense of momentum that will drive you into one heck of a great mood all day.